There is something sad about finals. I’m proud of my students, they have worked hard, and (mostly) pulled through. It hurts when I see a student struggle or fail… but I know that I can’t learn for them. At best I can put the tools in their hands, and hope.
Some lessons hurt more than others, but, hey… it beats the alternative. I think I’m going to share some of the life lessons that I have learned over the years. Soooo, in no particular order:
- Don’t die. Every other “rule” is just a suggestion.
- Failure will teach you more than success will.
- Being intelligent, smart, and wise are different things.
- Always respect a woman with a knife. (Corollary: assume all women are armed)
- Pay rent first.
- Never ask a question if you can’t take no for an answer.
- Do you feel like the universe owes you something? Congratulations, you exist. The rest is up to you.
- Avoiding all risks isn’t wisdom, it rather connotes cowardice. (Corollary: takings risks isn’t bravery, it is better to learn WHEN to take risks.)
- Information will fix ignorance. Only death cures stupidity.
- Being smart is not enough. You need to work too. Understanding people is also helpful.
- Isn’t it funny how “God’s Will” or “God’s Judgement” coincides with that of the speaker?
- Listen to your partner. They are probably looking out for either your interest, or theirs (and both should be important to you).
- There is no such thing as a right without a corresponding responsibility.
- “No” is a good answer. If a person is capable of telling you “no”, it validates their ability to say “yes”.
- Ignorance is uncomfortable.
- Two things that everyone thinks they are good at, and everyone needs to practice: communication and sex.
- Being nice is not the same as being good. (Corollary: it’s important to know when being good means not being nice).
- Laugh at yourself.
- Survive long enough to live again.
Some lessons are still in progress… but these are generally what I try to live by.
I’ve had some fantastic teachers in my life, I also need to thank them: Sharon (my Mom, my best teacher, and my hero) , Maurice and Helen (my grandfolks), Sarah (best described as “partner in crime”), Tim (one of the funniest Vulcans you could ever meet), Kirsten (who is still actual size, but seems much bigger), Heather (I’m sorry, still), Selina (who keeps me around for some reason), also Hillary, Bonnie, Dr. Mary Ellen Ryder, Dr. Andrea Dobson, Bob Firmann, Evan Ewalt, and more amazing people than I can possibly name.
I would be a poor student if I didn’t try to pass it on.
So tag. You’re it.